Dress codes are biased against females
February 26, 2021
Many schools in America and around the world enforce dress codes. Dress codes have been around for decades and were first introduced to prevent students from wearing inappropriate clothing.
However, dress codes are biased against females. The majority of rules that are seen in dress codes only apply to girls, and there seems to be more rules that girls have to follow when it comes to how they dress.
Dress codes constantly tell girls that we need to cover up. We can’t have our shoulders showing, our shorts can’t be too short, we can’t wear leggings, and so many other things we get told from a young age. We get told that we need to cover up so we don’t “distract” boys in school. This isn’t fair to girls. We should be able to wear what makes us feel comfortable and confident, without having to worry about “distracting” someone else.
Being dress-coded can also affect our education. Girls are taken out of class to go change, or even get detention for wearing something out of dress code. This is teaching girls that what we wear is more important than our education. I’ve never seen a boy get called down to the office because of his outfit before.
Dress codes specifically target clothes typically worn by females. Boys never get told that their shoulders are showing, or that their shorts are too short. Boys usually wear longer shorts because that’s the style. Girls should be able to wear shorter shorts if that’s what we like. If it’s hot out why shouldn’t we be allowed to wear a tank top? If our shoulders are distracting to someone else then that’s their problem.
I understand that people might think that dress codes will help promote a more professional school environment and help students focus more, but that’s not the case. Students will be able to work better and enjoy school more if they are allowed to wear what makes them comfortable. Girls around the world have to go to school wondering if they are going to get pulled out of class or sent home because of their outfits.
A solution is to stop blaming girls for distracting others with our clothing choices, and instead educate others to stop looking at girls like objects. A girl’s shoulders showing should not be sexualized in any way by anyone.
Dress codes are very biased towards females and I believe that isn’t something that should be okay. Students should wear what they like regardless of gender.
Lia • Oct 10, 2024 at 12:25 am
I got dress coded for thin straps the other day but a guy showing underwear didn’t, makes me wanna sue my school and show them this because i feel very put down and that i can’t speak because the adults won’t let you talk.
hailey • Sep 11, 2024 at 6:03 am
I completely agree with this article. I got dress-coded on the last week of school because my shorts were too short. So, I had to go home and change. It’s not my fault, my shorts were too short, for every minute trying to keep them down. I complain to my friends and family about the dress code and how biased it is. Honestly, if we “distract” boys, the problem is the way we dress. Unfair to all girls and women of any age.
destiny • Jan 26, 2024 at 11:27 am
i think this is totally correct because the schools think that the clothes we wear are the most distracting thing to the boys but its really just our looks of the face and body and our personality
DAle • Mar 14, 2024 at 2:44 pm
so true
garland • Dec 5, 2023 at 1:26 am
right, because boys having to wear pants in summer when girls can wear skirts is somehow favoring guys? There have literally been guys going to school and the workplace in skirts to get around dress codes.
Aliarah • Nov 27, 2023 at 4:15 pm
I love this article because it makes people see how dress codes really are. I’m a sophomore in high school and no matter what I wear I always get dress coded. Guys walk around wearing whatever they want but girls do the same thing we get in trouble for it. It’s 2023 and some guys just need to learn to control themselves because to them we are just objects. I’m sick of tired of getting called out of classes or calling my parents to bring me clothes because we are seen as a distraction. No matter what we wear will always be seen as a distraction to guys no matter what. It’s sad.
Amara Mary Fulller • Jan 16, 2024 at 9:10 pm
I am so happy that you wrote this because it is true. We can’t show are skin really at all. Girls should be able to wear what they feel the most great in and not be told that it is wrong to dress like that. Guys get to wear what ever they want and don’t get in trouble at all. The way that girls are treated is unfair and not right. No matter what we wear it would be a distraction to a guy.
Roberto • Jun 1, 2023 at 4:25 am
I would say the opposite. Dress codes are biased against males. In my school some boys were reprehended for having naked shoulders. Girls and female teachers were allowed to have them naked instead.
In formal occasions, men often need to wear suits and have few other choices in comparison to women who wear whatever they want and can easily make everything appear formal. They also adapt clothes to the climate, while men need conditioned hair in summer
Austyn • May 3, 2023 at 12:26 pm
Thank you for writing this, it has helped me prove my point across so many people and even my principal and I am in Elementary school in Colorado and I’m inspired by your work, thank you.
Evalyn • Apr 26, 2023 at 1:19 pm
This is so awesome and true!
Kaeleigh • Apr 20, 2023 at 6:59 pm
This article is perfect. At my school, the teachers target the thinner more fit girls if they wear something that shows their mid-drift when right next to them is a wider girl that is wearing a cropped sweatshirt and gets no hate. This needs to be fixed.
Austyn • May 3, 2023 at 12:30 pm
I am proud of you for trying to fix this. I am going through these dress codes rules and I’ve gotten targeted and I’m only in Elementary school.
Sarah • Jan 13, 2023 at 9:42 am
I love this article, in School I got dress coded for my shorts being to short when the rule is that your short can be to your finger tips my shorts were an inch longer. I hated the dress code and how it mainly applies to young women. If we show our shoulders men better rethink what there looking at I mean dude there shoulders look the other way! And why can’t we wear ripped jeans if it’s only to our Knees I mean be serious people we aren’t trying to attract guys we are beautiful we can’t just turn it off! the problem is how people itemize women like we’re just boobs, a butt and pretty faces that can’t make there own choices, if this is the world it needs to be changed.
chloe • Jan 12, 2023 at 1:49 pm
its really good i liked it
chloe • Oct 29, 2022 at 2:35 am
Dress codes are not all created equal. While making a physical space like a workplace or school more “gender-neutral” may seem like a good idea, it actually does the opposite. Boys, in particular, are more likely to be allowed to dress however they want, while girls are told that they have to dress a certain way if they want to be accepted. This is a problem that is not talked about enough and is an issue that needs to be addressed.
Felix (yes it's an odd name for a girl) • Mar 8, 2022 at 8:24 am
Yes, this is honestly the best article I have seen so far. I never understood why boys can’t get pulled down either. I’ve seen several guys at my school wearing really short shorts but not getting pulled out. Yesterday on Monday, March 7th, I wore a skirt that went down to where the teachers wouldn’t tell me to go down and get some pants. We went out to recess and all of a sudden a teacher, that’s not even a teacher, said that my skirt was too short and that I flashed everyone went I bent over to grab my phone. I actually had my butt covered when I bent over. There was no way they could’ve seen it. I get pulled out so many times and I’m already failing classes already. I feel like females are allowed to wear whatever they want. Like over-sized hoodies in the winter and not asked to pull their sleeves up, wearing a tank top in gym or during the summer and told they can see side boob or the straps are too skinny, wearing jeans and the holes are to high or the holes on the knees are to big, wearing a shoulder showing shirt and told that their shoulders are distracting, etc. Oh, we’re sorry that God made out bodied the way they are now. Even my male best friend agrees! I swear to god.
ally • Feb 16, 2022 at 7:26 pm
This is an awesome article. Girls aren’t saying that schools should get rid of all dress codes, just some. Like ripped jeans, I HAVE NEVER MET ANYONE THAT IS ATTRACTED TO KNEECAPS! Some rules are just dumb. Also, getting rid of part of the dress code is not FORCING people to dress differently, it’s merely giving the opportunity to dress how you want to.
Starr • Mar 4, 2022 at 8:04 pm
EXACTLY!
Ash • Mar 16, 2022 at 12:19 pm
Yeah- they let us wear shorts (in some cases) but not ripped jeans
chloe • Oct 29, 2022 at 2:27 am
This is an awesome article.
chloe • Oct 29, 2022 at 2:29 am
like at my school we have to were a School uniforms and look at all the cons of it .School uniforms restrict students’ freedom of expression. School uniforms promote conformity over individuality. School uniforms do not stop bullying and may increase violent attacks. School uniforms do not improve attendance, academic preparedness, or exam results.
jasmine • Nov 17, 2022 at 9:07 am
it makes it harder for people who have medical equipment like i do to be able to not cover them up and have complications its just not right
Ben • Jan 19, 2022 at 6:38 pm
I feel like with the dress code existing they are trying to teach people that the world isn’t fair and that certain clothes have a time and a place. If I went to a funeral in tight sweat pants and a nirvana t-shirt I would be kicked to the curb.
Austyn • May 3, 2023 at 12:33 pm
Dudes and girls should be able to wear whatever they want as long as they are comfortable with their choice of clothing, and that’s coming from an 10 year old kid from elementary school
Austyn • May 8, 2023 at 12:32 pm
It’s not that anyone is saying that the world is fair because it’s not, but for dress codes the world is fair to dudes
John • Jan 14, 2022 at 5:00 am
I’ve seen dudes get dress coded for wearing tank tops and flip flops, I’ve seen females get dress coded on more than one occasion for wearing stuff you could see their cleavage through. I feel like females get dress coded more often due to the simple fact that dudes don’t have breasts and if they do they wear a jacket or something it’s not that hard, don’t wear a damn midriff in December.
aundrea • Mar 6, 2022 at 6:16 pm
its kinda hard to do that-
clothes that are targeted towards girls and are the only thing you can find in stores show midriff and cleavage… i know im making excuses but some things wont change it will get worse and its hard for you to realise that women and feminine ppl alike get shamed for their bodies and if they’re wearing smal thing, that are targeted and sold to them, are called whores, sluts, teases, ect. because they’re confident in showing their bodies off… its honestly stupid.
hope.angle • Jan 11, 2022 at 8:37 am
its not our fault that we was created like this first of how are shoulders distract to men that just don’t make any sense we should feel comfortable with what we are wearing
chloe • Dec 13, 2021 at 10:58 am
Girls should be able to wear anything they feel confident in.
Jamarie • Dec 12, 2021 at 3:55 pm
Dress codes repeatedly restrict crop tops, halter tops, skirts, shorts, dresses, spaghetti straps, and other clothes mainly worn by girls. This is very unfair. We are also told that our bodies are distractions. If you’re distracted because my bra strap is showing, you need to evaluate the way you look at me.
Melissa • Apr 28, 2022 at 4:49 pm
but isn’t it partially your responsibility to portray yourself in a way that commands respect, and doesn’t give an explicit reason for guys to look at you in that way?
Mia • Aug 1, 2023 at 9:24 am
A girl dressing how she wants (as she should) is not “giving them a reason” to look at her in a sexual manner. It is not her fault the world is as twisted as it is when it comes to things like that. Because a girl is showing more skin, she shouldn’t deserve or “command” respect? Dystopian. It is never a girl’s responsibility to accommodate the perverts.
Mikuonfire • Dec 8, 2021 at 5:32 pm
These dress codes are unreasonably biased towards girls but in my point of view I see it as some sort of protection against male teachers or staff tending to be attracted to female students. And one solution to this problem is to place more restrictions on female students.
Anonymous • Jun 16, 2022 at 2:20 pm
If you are attracted to female students, you deserve to be fired or taken out of the school, not the other way around.
Naomi • Aug 1, 2022 at 5:15 am
The problem there is with male teachers being attracted to students. THAT is the issue, not the child’s clothing. Why should a child have to accommodate and be responsible for the inappropriate attentions of an adult.
griff • Nov 29, 2021 at 9:17 am
cap I am a dude and I have been dress coded 5 times non political non targeting clothing wth bro
Mattie • Dec 2, 2021 at 11:06 am
Rly =/ i doubt that dont lie
Immy • Dec 8, 2021 at 10:12 am
She didn’t say men don’t get dress coded at all, girls are just targeted more.
Ashlee Young • Jan 10, 2022 at 5:19 pm
Nobody ever said boys don’t get dress coded, we are just saying that it is more typical for a woman/ girl to get dress coded because our “shoulders” or thighs are too distracting to you men.
John • Jan 19, 2022 at 6:28 pm
Guys don’t get dress coded as often because we don’t have a sense of fashion I just wear jeans and a hoodie, if you did the same thing you wouldn’t get dress coded
Lily • Feb 10, 2022 at 3:25 pm
I’m sorry but we girls actually have a sense of style unlike a lot of guys who just wear like the same hoodie all day every day
peyton • Feb 18, 2022 at 1:22 pm
exactly
Elizabeth • Mar 29, 2022 at 9:51 am
That’s all I wear and I got dress coded for it because they could see my chest through the hoodie. Hoodies and jeans are more comfortable than people realize.
Em • Nov 3, 2022 at 4:34 pm
I can go to the store and look for an hour and not find one pair of women’s jeans without holes.
Mattie • Nov 16, 2021 at 11:10 am
i got dress coded for wearing a crop top where the bottom of my bra showed i hate the dress code
Gene • May 21, 2022 at 7:31 am
You would have got coded for the simple fact you was wearing a crop top to begin with at my school.
Emma • Oct 29, 2021 at 2:32 pm
this is extremely true, i once got dress coded for wearing pants that were to “short”
Ireland • Nov 16, 2021 at 2:17 pm
ikr they just act like we want to be a distraction and the common repy is what was she wearing? We should be able to wear what we wan and not fer if we will get raped or dress coded for our clothes its terrible just terrible.
John • Jan 19, 2022 at 6:32 pm
You probably should stay in school.
kira • Mar 10, 2022 at 3:32 pm
i really liked this article because it makes sense it is so unfair how guys can wear whatever and not get dresscoded but girl get dresscoded for the smallest thing like kneecaps who are attracted to those and ankles like what the heck it makes no sense
Austyn • May 8, 2023 at 12:34 pm
this is not at all about staying in school, this is about girls rights
Melissa • Apr 28, 2022 at 4:51 pm
I wouldn’t put rape and being dress coded on the same level…
Miracle • Feb 27, 2023 at 11:10 am
Rape can cause mental damage and physical damage
dress cods are just plain out sexist and unjust